Women in SA

One trigger after another

Tonight I'm in a city for a certain conference that is well known for lust. This is a tough trip for me so far. I feel most challenged in my hotel room. It's hard - just one trigger after another. And it's all me...

Not wanting to be leered at

I was exposed to pornography at an early age and lived in a household where pretty and submissive were rewarded with love and attention. I imagined that looking like a sex object would lead me to a real connection...

Sharing our true selves

I spent my life wearing and declaring my sexuality to the world by the way I presented myself. Early in childhood, I learned that I could get my needs for love and attention met this way and it became a lifelong...

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