I don't know how to not look.  I am powerless over the look.  My life is unmanageable.  I cannot manage looking and I can not manage not looking.  What I need is a new attitude about looking and taking and lusting...

"The fellowship gave us monitoring and support to keep us from being overwhelmed, a safe haven where we could finally face ourselves"  SA White Book page 204.
 
I have always viewed feedback...

I know there are ups and downs in normal life. My lusting and acting out behaviours were my faulty attempt to heighten the ups and avoid the downs. Lust doesn't work for me anymore, because I always surrender it ...

Dishonesty is second nature to my dis-ease. I lived in the shadows with my lust and told outright lies to everyone or lied by omission. ...

In my experience, Steps 10 to 12 are quite different from the previous nine Steps.  I've heard some oldtimers talk about 10-12 as the "maintenance" Steps.  I've also heard others say that we go through Steps 1-9...