J'ai passé ma vie entière dans la luxure. Pour luxurer j'ai utilisé le sexe, l'alcool, les relations, le travestisme, le...

I know there are ups and downs in normal life. My lusting and acting out behaviours were my faulty attempt to heighten the ups and avoid the downs. Lust doesn't work for me anymore, because I always surrender it ...

Prior to joining SA, I was not satisfied with life; something was missing; I was not happy. I pointed my finger at everything else in life as the cause of my inner misery and my wife was my favourite target. If...

In my experience, Steps 10 to 12 are quite different from the previous nine Steps.  I've heard some oldtimers talk about 10-12 as the "maintenance" Steps.  I've also heard others say that we go through Steps 1-9...

This morning during prayer I found myself in an unfamiliar place. I felt a lot of resistance whilst praying the Third Step Prayer. For a moment, I thought that if I didn't pray it God wouldn't know about my...

I'm celebrating six years of SA sobriety today by writing the sexual harms done part of another 4th Step inventory. A lot has come up, which was not in my previous inventories. It's helping me to recognize just...

In SA I have received the grace from God to see myself as I really am and the willingness to change in His direction. In other words, I have become desperate enough to really work the Steps and to try to get...