My spouse needed to fast yesterday and this morning in preparation for a medical test; she couldn't even drink water. This really challenged my codependency, especially when she insisted on making breakfast for me, whilst fasting herself. I am resentful and impatient whenever things don't go my way. Sometimes we take days doing things that I would have done in a few hours when I was single. Marriage is showing me how utterly self-centered and selfish I am. I’m intolerant and unloving. I resented not being able to go to my language class today because "I had to" go to the hospital to support my wife. I called a buddy in Sexaholics Anonymous. He suggested I pray to God and focus on how to be of service to my spouse today.