Questions to Consider

  1. How ready am I to stop my current lustful or sexual behaviors?
  2. Do I find that thoughts about sex, romance, or relationships interfere with my daily life?
  3. How often do I sexually act out?
  4. Do I find that I prefer my fantasies to real life?
  5. Do I get lost in my head?
  6. Do I sexualize the behavior of others?
  7. Do I fantasize, masturbate, or otherwise act out to cover up other feelings?
  8. Do I keep violating boundaries that I have set for myself?
  9. Do I find myself using the computer for sexual or romantic excitement? Do I prefer my computer activities to the company of real people?
  10. Have I lost or damaged relationships because of my behavior?
  11. Have I caused myself physical pain or risked my health?
  12. Have I experienced remorse, guilt, shame, or depression because of my fantasies or behavior?
  13. Do I continue the same sexual behavior despite personal, financial, or legal consequences?
  14. Have I been or could I have been in trouble with the law because of my behavior?

Step into Action One, Two, Three  Copyright 2004 by Sexaholics Anonymous, Inc

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