Overcoming Lust and Temptation in Sexaholics Anonymous

For me, “willingness” means that I am willing to take actions that I don't want to take in order to realize a goal that I do want. When I first came to SA, using the prayers from "Overcoming Lust and Temptation" (in SA [the “White Book”] pages 158-168), and making phone calls were alien to me; these actions felt uncomfortable. However, I wanted  freedom from the obsession with lust, so I was willing to take the uncomfortable actions suggested by those for whom the problem had been solved.