My character defect: I want to be treated special in order to feel normal. Rooted within this idea is that I want to be catered to; I want to be served. But that is just me playing God. And when life doesn't work that way, I get angry and resentful--thinking that life is unfair because I'm not being treated special or normal. But normal is just a setting on a washing machine. Thanks to working the Steps with a sponsor, I get right-sized and begin to do what I was put on this earth to do: Help other Sexaholics.