Wanting to be lusted after

Intimacy comes at a price

Although I never felt that I could get others to lust after me, I still always dressed to impress, hoping to attract someone, anyone. And if someone noticed me looking sharp or smelling good, it was a high for me...

Sharing our true selves

I spent my life wearing and declaring my sexuality to the world by the way I presented myself. Early in childhood, I learned that I could get my needs for love and attention met this way and it became a lifelong...

Wearing my provocative hat

At times, I've wished many women wouldn't dress in the provocative the way they do. But I'm starting to understand how electric a temptation it would be if, by showing some skin, I could turn heads. Problem is,...

A note to myself

You are powerless over lust yet you still want to be lusted after. It's a fact and it's ok to accept it because it's a part of you. Embrace the beauty around you and give thanks. The people you see when you are...