Today I am paralyzed and my life is unmanageable. I'm a highly trained and qualified professional but I cannot focus. Divorced over 7 years yet still bewildered about the what happened to my failed marriage. How...

An alcoholic with 30+ years of recovery gently and laughingly informed me, that "why questions" don't help. This is because all why questions are management questions and, in recovery, I am no longer "in...

In recovery, my life is still somewhere about ... oh perhaps .... 0% manageable by me.  Might not be exact, but it's in that range.

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I have been acting as if my lust addiction is a matter of will power, when actually I am powerless and my life is unmanageable.  If I stay on this road, I shall lose everything.  I tell myself that I need to work...