Part of me knew from very early on that I was a sexaholic. Part of me didn't want to admit that or accept it. Part of me wanted to be rid of "the addict". Part of me wanted to give into that and just enjoy my acting out. Wow, that's a lot of "parts", all doing battle within me! No wonder life...

Surrender is the giving up of something specific - a specific temptation to lust for instance. The temptation is real and it is there in this moment. I can surrender it. That is a choice I can still make. But once...

I have a growing acceptance that I will never succeed in keeping all aspects of my life in control. There are just too many other people and too many circumstances that keep thwarting my efforts to maintain...

I've been meditating today on the idea that, in our programme, there seems to be no such thing as surrender in the abstract. Surrender is a giving up of something specific, like a particular singular habit. Will...

In my full-scale acting out days, any talk from my wife about traveling away from home immediately triggered my sexaholic mind into lust and a whole lot of obsessive thinking about how great it was going to be to...

I'm loving all the shares on practical tips for surrendering lust temptations. I'm told sexaholism is three-fold: physical, emotional, and spiritual. Ideally my surrender would involve all three. A large part of...

So much of what has happened is recent years has kept knocking the pillars of my so-called "knowledge" out from under me. I increasingly find myself certain of increasingly fewer things. But those fewer and fewer...