In defining sobriety, we do not speak for those outside Sexaholics Anonymous. We can only speak for ourselves.
Thus, for the married sexaholic, sexual sobriety means having no form of sex with self or with persons other than the spouse.
For the unmarried sexaholic, sexual sobriety means freedom from sex of any kind.
And for all of us in Sexaholics Anonymous, single and married alike, sexual sobriety also includes progressive victory over lust.
SA White Book p 191-192